How To Hook

The real way to hook girls - every, single, time


(If you’re a fan of natural game / think psychology is bullshit / think it’s funny to cluelessly guess your way into pussy like the guy in the picture - you’re gonna HATE this!)

Feel free to try this out. It’s hilarious. They start chasing like YOU. WON’T. FUCKING. BELIEVE!

This works like absolute MAGIC.

A lot of credit for step #2 goes to my good friend David Swift, aka the pussy eating champ, aka Text Game Jesus (who, by the way, contrary to popular belief, is really good in nightgame!)

(By the way, David has been teaching me text game for the previous month or so. I can’t even begin to explain how mind blown I am by this guy. If you wanna get god-level text game, I strongly recommend joining him and Alex Vilenchik in Playing With Fire)

Let's get into it.

Step 1. Open strong/with intensity

I will get in VERY close on the open and I'm LOUD.

By close I mean about 10-15cm between our faces.

By loud I mean almost considered shouting.

However, I make sure to NOT do this in an obnoxious/rude/creepy way.

What I’m trying to achieve here is a pattern-interrupt effect to get their FULL, UNDIVIDED ATTENTION so I can run step 2 properly.

Step 2. Create curiosity by baiting them to ask me questions to leave on open loops.

I know, that’s a mouthful.

However, it’s pretty simple. Let me explain.

For example, I will bait the girl into asking me what I do for work.

Me: “Where are you from?”

Her: “I’m from England. Where are you from?”

Me: “Ah that’s cool, I meet a lot of English people with my job.”

She should ask you what you do for work now. If she doesn’t, rinse and repeat like this:

Me: “How long are you in Budapest?

Her: “We’re here until Friday. You?

Me: “I’m here for a long time because of my job.”

You get the idea.

(By the way, if you’re thinking this "doesn’t make sense”, you’re being too logical. Fuck logic.)

When she finally asks what my job is, I'll go..

"I can't tell you yet. Maybe when I know you better.


"No come on, tell me what you do for work."

"Ehh it's kinda embarassing.. how's the weather back in England?"

"You're trying to change the subject!! Just tell me what you do for work"

"I'm not sure.. It's pretty controversial."

"Please tell me!!"

"You're gonna judge the fuck out of me if I tell you."

"No I promise I don't judge!!"

"Yeah right.. all girls say that. They pretend to be non-judgmental when in reality, they're not."

"No I'm not like that!!"

(See the frames I manage to inject here as well? I'm making HER put the non-judgmental frame, which is gonna help A LOT when trying to pull later on. We got Commitment & Consistency working for us big-time.)

"All right.. you can have three guesses. Go."

Most common ones I get are pornstar, drug dealer, male prostitute, male stripper, or escort.

I will reply to these with “sort of, but not really. It’s vaguely related” to keep them chasing.

By this point, the girl will have set a sexual frame. They will do this 9/10 times if I do step 2 correctly.

Step 3. Sexual hoop progression

Since the girl is chasing really hard from step 2 + introduced a sexual topic, I can jump straight into sexual hoop progression.

Most of the time, I end up using the same hoops. Why?

Because this sequence works a very high percentage of the time.

“How adventurous are you on a scale of 1-10?”

“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”

If they ask what I mean by “crazy”, I simply reply “sexually”.

If they say they “don’t know”, you go first with a sexual story of your own. She wants to know what kind of answer you’re expecting her to give.

I have some pretty crazy stories, which I’m gonna share with you another day (gonna be of massive value in terms of how to actually execute from open to close).

When she tells me the craziest thing she’s ever done, I MAKE SURE TO REWARD. (Even if I think whatever she’s telling me isn’t that impressive).

Always reward sexual compliance. It should make sense to everyone why it’s really stupid not to (at least if you believe in psychology).

Keep the hoop progression going.

“Do you like getting your hair pulled?”

“Do you like being spanked?”

“Do you like being choked?”

If she jumps through these kinds of hoops, an alarm bell should go off inside your head. It's time to pull.

Before I pull, however, I'm gonna do some storytelling to get rid of all her limiting beliefs/objections to make it super solid.

However, this post is already getting too long. We'll talk about that another time.