Emotional stability. Everything you do needs to come from a grounded place. If you are disappointed or upset with her actions and you want to discourage it (punish) or set a clear boundary, then it all needs to come from the same place of groundedness This doesn’t mean you can’t look or sound angry or …
For one, you will encounter more resistance more often with physical escalation. More concerns and resistance usually means backtracking or having to put in even more work after. The more compliance you have, the more physical you can be. But most guys won’t be able to gauge compliance very well. And physical calibration is not …
I used to have relatively brief interactions before number closing when I first started day gaming. What do I think about / focus on when I have much shorter interactions? It’s very simple: #? ????????? ??????. Even if it is negative, I want her to feel. To remember me. To think about me. Again, even …
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“If you were dedicating 40 hours a week to game, what’s the best break down of time? I’m thinking of splitting: 30-32 hours split between day game and dates and night game, 4-5 hours writing field reports (45 mins a day) 4-5 hours watching infield (inc notes + analysis), at least initially” *A little rant* …
Do you have go-to openers that work a high percentage of the time? I find it hard to open in night game. Do a cold read or say something situational, but the set doesn’t hook! Even if it does, I don’t know how to let the interaction run for longer… I don’t have the problem …
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Hey guys. A couple of months ago, a significant insight/epiphany came to me. After heavy field testing, I can finally confirm that this theory is extremely reliable This is one of the most groundbreaking ideas I’ve had in a long time. And I believe this idea is what gave me retarded consistency lately (more than …
Why I (almost) never get objections anymore (and how you can eliminate them too) Read More »
This has been popping up a bit lately, so I wanted to address it The act of paying for a girl’s drink or meal and the perception it creates is culturally dependent. For Russian girls, you should practically always pay for the drink. It is socially expected, and going against that will make a feeble …
Everything is important. But there are a few fundamentals that are NOT optional. These NEED to be on point. I’m going to explain to them as thoroughly as possible. A few mindsets myself and our students have found helpful: 1) Assume attraction 2) Always Be Closing One of the most valuable mindsets that helped me …
If you want to have girls out of your current reality, beyond what you thought was possible..If you want to have girls that others believe are out of your league suddenly attracted and being the one begging to spend more time with you..Then you must learn how to make them chase. In social interactions, there …
One of the questions I see the most is “What do I say when she tells me she has a boyfriend?”