I used to have relatively brief interactions before number closing when I first started day gaming. What do I think about / focus on when I have much shorter interactions? It’s very simple:
#𝟭 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁.
Even if it is negative, I want her to feel. To remember me. To think about me. Again, even if it is more negative. I want there to be some emotional attachment when I text her. I’m confident I can flip her (and even turn hate into love!). If you have short interactions and no emotional impact, then forget about it! Especially if you didn’t DHV enough!
#𝟮 𝗗𝗛𝗩 𝗮𝘀 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗮𝗺𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲!
Your DHVing can also have a tremendous emotional impact (having #1 and #2 in one short interaction!)
I put this at #3 because I used to sexualize over text after I have DHV and made an emotional impact! However, I started to focus on my sub comms to sexualize subtly with my verbals, tonality, and body language! Combine this naturally with #1 and #2 and even better! You can also use sexual DHVs when you DHV! Combining all 3!
#𝟰 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗲. 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝘀. 𝗜 𝗮𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿. 𝗜 𝗮𝗺 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲. 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝗠𝗬 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝘀!
Even if she is trying to leave because she is in a rush, I will keep her there for a minute longer so that I can be the one to apologize for having to leave and leaving the interaction under the impression that she is the one chasing. You are having to leave with leaving her with a particular taste in her mouth! Especially when you’ve combined the first #3 points! In my game, I am heavily focused on getting the girls to chase! There’s been cases where maybe it hurt me (losing interactions because I went slightly too far trying to get her to chase even more! But this is always a great learning experience and really helps me understand how to calibrate in future interactions!).
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗜 𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝘂𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲? Well, it depends on the specific interaction! I’ve open sexually and pushed for a f*ckdate! Or booty massage! If you make all 4 points correctly, you don’t have to focus on setting up a date. She should do some of that work for you if not lead the interaction toward a date! Find the perfect soft close over text and see if your game was good enough (or DHV’d well enough) to see if she bites on the bait! Otherwise, you’ll have to get her schedule and use the intel you have on her to determine the best way to propose a date, when, where, how, etc.
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