Everything is important.
But there are a few fundamentals that are NOT optional. These NEED to be on point. I’m going to explain to them as thoroughly as possible.
A few mindsets myself and our students have found helpful:
1) Assume attraction
2) Always Be Closing
One of the most valuable mindsets that helped me in my learning process was pulling every single girl. It made a lot of sense to me. The only thing that stands between me and a pull is an objection. The more I try to pull, the more objections I’ll get. The more objections I get, the better I’ll become at handling them. The more objection I handle, the more girls I pull. I don’t want to overload you with mindsets. It’s a recipe for disaster and will only result in mental masturbation, not why we’re in this group.
Be much closer than you think you need to be. You should be close enough that you feel the tension building. From the outside, it should look like you are about to
2) Eye contact
Pick one pupil, and stick to it. Remember to relax your upper eyelid, or you’ll look like a serial killer and get banned from every venue in the city.
3) Square up
This means that your shoulders, feet, and hips are in alignment with hers. Hence the name. Simple AF.
You don’t want to sound like a robot.
A great start is to vary between a “Happy” tonality and a “Sad” tonality. If you can do this, you’ll have a more emotional impact than 95% of the population. Instantly. Once you get the hang of this, you can introduce other tonalities, such as “curious,” “positive disbelief,” “negative disbelief,” “suspicion,” and so on.
5) Vocal projection
You need to be loud enough for her to hear from you. Likely much louder than you think you need to be. Ask yourself this – have you ever had a girl tell you that you’re “too loud?” Probably not. How often do girls ask you to repeat yourself? Probably quite often. She shouldn’t have to put any effort in whatsoever just for the sake of hearing from you.
When you’re just starting, this does NOT have to be fancy. KISS – Keep It Simple, Stupid.
If you follow the structure below, you will get results. It’s inevitable. It will be primarily a numbers game, but it’s far better than “freestyling.” What I’m doing right now isn’t too different from the below structure, at least on a surface level.
Open / Lock-in / Isolate / Seed pull / Pull
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